You ask this question in a wrong "category". There is "Help!" category created specially for such kind of questions.
On the topic. I am a newbie here, too. My tabulatures submitted via the forum have been waiting for more than four months and are still not published, so I think it is normal for this place. From the other hand, my submissions via the "Submit -> Guitar Tab" on the main site took from two weeks to two months to be published. So I resubmitted my tabulatures from the forum using the main site mechanism. We will see.
Or perhaps, the waiting time depends on the difficulty level of a tabulature itself. The tabulature that was published in two weeks was very simple in comparison to the others.